If you don’t go after what you want, you'll never have it. If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. If you don’t step forward, you're always in the same place.
This beautiful quote is by Nora Roberts. I knew this quote from a friend that loves motivational quotations and sayings. She said, by reading all that stuff; we can’t eventually inspire ourselves and I am agreeing with what she said. To be honest, this quote is kind of inspiring me to be a better person in the future and yeah, I am trying my best to be one! For me, this quote is about ourselves; our own determination; how are we going to run this life. These three sentences are like the simple rules in our life. We are the ones who living our own life not anyone else.
If you don’t go after what you want, you'll never have it. This sentence emphasises how we have to work hard to get what we want. D-E-T-E-R-M-I-N-A-T-I-O-N; it is a thirteen letter word that some people might have trouble how to pronounce it but no matter how we pronounce it, the main thing is do we have this quality in our life or are we determination enough to go after what we want? Let me tell you a simple example of determination. In the university, there are a lot of men and women in the campus. A freshman saw a lady that his type. He tried to win the lady’s heart by doing anything but the lady rejected him. He never gave up and still trying to win her heart. He said to himself; “I must get this lady.” Because of his determination and sincerities, the lady finally accepted him. Hold on. This is not a typical love story but just a simple example to show if we have determination in ourselves, we will get what we want. With determination and efforts, we’ll have what we want. :)
If you don’t ask, the answer is always no. What do you understand with this sentence? For me, it’s about confidence. Remember how the first time you enter the school? Nervous? Afraid? Anxious? It’s normal for me; everyone goes through that level. See; where are you now? Take a moment, think deeply; are you confident enough to go through this life till the end of your life? Are we controlled by our fears? If we are afraid we will say we can’t, our mind thinks we can’t, and we don’t do it. It’s all in the mind. Mind controls the act of human. Easy to say, like people always said 'saiko jak tu, jangan kalah saiko'. So, don’t lose over our fear because it's nothing if we are confident. I dare, you dare, and we all dare! :D
If you don’t step forward, you're always in the same place. I really like this sentence because it really means a lot to me. It’s simple but yet, it’s a lot. Do you get me? Try to stand up; you want to move forward, what will you do? Yes, simple answer. Step forward and move. Emphasise it into your own life. Take a moment for your self-evaluation. Am I changing to a better person or I am still stuck at the same place? Take a breath and think deeply into your mind and soul. Self-evaluation is the best method to make you realize about yourself because it flows right into your soul. Back to the topic, you are the one who responsible to make the move. No one can move you but just encouraging you. You are the one who living you life so you are the one who will decide it. I ever came across with these sayings; 'Seseorang itu tidak akan berubah jika dia sendiri tidak mengubahnya.' Or ‘A person will never change himself if he doesn’t want to change it.’ Do you get what i mean? I guess you guys can understand what I’m trying to say. It’s you who decide whether you want to step forward or stay in the same place. IT'S ALL IN YOUR HAND. It’s about you and your life.
Whoa! It’s quite long for a post but what to do? There are a lot of things that I want to share. I hope it is useful for everybody especially myself. I am the one who posting this, why wouldn’t I think of anything that I have said. :)
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